Showing posts with label pregnancy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pregnancy. Show all posts

Saturday, January 5, 2013

Our Birth Story

I'll start by saying that nothing went as planned, it was scary, it was emotional and not at all ideal but baby Abby is here and she is our everything!

Let's start where, although we didn't know it, the whole whirlwind of events began.  I woke up in the middle of the night Saturday to what I believed was major heartburn.  After a half dozen Tums and attempting to sleep sitting up there was still no relief.  I made a call to the OB office which pretty much just told me to wait and see.  They believed it was either heartburn or just a muscle pain.  "Take a warm Epsom salt bath, use a heating pad, take anti-gas meds, get rest and hopefully it'll go away."  Well, I seemed to get some relief over the next few days but it was still slightly there and worse when I tried to sleep.  Monday I stayed home from work because I was still uncomfortable and advised to rest.  The pain got better throughout the day and Jon and I were able to do many baby things around the house.  We organized things, started getting together a diaper bag and hospital bag, installed the car seat, mailed in product registrations, and mailed in our pre-registration for the hospital.  We got so many baby things done (good thing).  I started feeling better so I was led to believe that it was indeed heartburn or a muscle ache.  Tuesday I returned to work.  That night while trying to sleep the extreme mid-chest pain returned.  This time I couldn't ignore it and made an appointment online to see my OB the following day.  I thought for sure I'd be given prescription heartburn meds and be sent on my merry way.  Well, I was extremely wrong.  I did the normal office visit thing...peed in a cup, stepped on the scale and had my blood pressure taken.  Well, my blood pressure was a little elevated but not too alarming.  I then explained the pain I'd been having and was pretty quickly told I needed to have blood work done.  The reasoning was to rule out preeclampsia.  The OB was fairly confident that I didn't have it given that the epigastric pain and slightly elevated blood pressure were my only symptoms.  But, they wanted to make sure and wanted me to go to the hospital to have labs done.  So, I headed to the hospital thinking that I'd walk in to a lab-esque place to get pricked a couple times and head on my way to work.  That was not the case.  I was immediately admitted to labor and delivery to have blood work done.  This is where all the fun starts.  My blood pressure was being monitored very closely.  I was told to pee in a container for 24 hours.  I had an IV started, was having blood drawn every few hours for various tests, my belly was hooked up to multiple monitors to make sure Abby was safe, I had an ultrasound of my organs and and ultrasound of baby too.  At one point I was told I'd be on bedrest at home, bedrest in the hospital, be induced at 37 weeks and possibly have my gallbladder removed.   But, over the course of the next 48 hours I would actually be diagnosed with preeclampsia.  On Wednesday the only symptom I had was the "chest" pain and slightly elevated blood pressure and by Friday morning my liver enzymes were high, my red blood cell count was off, there was protein in my urine and my blood pressure had reached something like 190 over 110.  Basically, I was on the verge of having a stroke while simultaneously suffering kidney and liver failure.  The only cure to preeclampsia is delivery so on Friday morning I was visited by the OB who quickly told me that I would be having a baby.  Scary but exciting at the same time.  I was incredibly sick at this point.  I was dehydrated.  I felt weak and was extremely ill.  The only option for birth, given how I felt, was to move forward with a c-section.  They proceeded with an epidural and rolled me into the operating room at 11:30am.  At 11:51am on Friday, December 7th, 2012 baby Abigail Scarlett was born!  She weighed 4 pounds 6.5 ounces (exactly 13 ounces less than they had estimated via ultrasound the day before) and was 18.5 inches long.  She came out crying which was a very sweet sound given that she was only 34 weeks and 6 days.  She was immediately taken to NICU for observation due to her gestational age at birth.  Baby girl started out on oxygen for the first 36 hours but was a strong little one.  By Sunday she was breathing on her own, regulating her own temperature and by all accounts was healthy.  She would spend the next 15 days learning how to eat and remembering to breathe.  As the doctors said, "she was just being a preemie."  As I like to say, "she just had to learn how to be a baby."
 
 




Thursday, January 3, 2013

34 Weeks and SURPRISE, Baby Abby's birth too!

 
This was the draft to the questions that I had created before ending up in the hospital on Wednesday for the "heartburn" mentioned below. 
Baby Abigail Scarlett was born on Friday at 34 weeks and 6 days.
 
How Far Along: 34 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Cantelope
Best Moment This Week: Going through all your new clothes and things and realizing that your arrival is around the corner!
Gender: Baby Girl
Movement: Lots of kicking and rolling and oftentimes on my bladder.
Food Cravings: Chicken pot pie, alfredo pasta and Thanksgiving food!
What I Miss: Getting up from bed without pushing off with my arm.
Sleep: It seems that I'm sleeping for longer periods of time now, knock on wood.
Belly Button: Still hanging in there...mostly flat though.
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: Yup.
Stretch Marks: I think I just need to suck it up...they exist.
Symptoms: Just normal preggo problems...peeing often and heartburn.
What I am Looking Forward to: Our last holiday season without a little one to hold- IRONY AT ITS BEST

Monday, December 3, 2012

33 Weeks


How Far Along: 33 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Pineapple
Best Moment This Week: Going on the hospital tour and seeing the little angels in the nursery AND realizing that you'll be here for us to cuddle so soon
Gender: sweet baby girl
Movement: Definitely more jabs and more pressure on the bladder
Food Cravings: Sweet tea is becoming harder to resist so I've started allowing myself splurges here or there
What I Miss: Not much, I have to say that I'm a pretty happy girl
Sleep: Waking up every few hours for a potty break but otherwise, sleeping sound
Belly Button: Pretty much flattened out
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: All maternity with the exception of longer shirts and loungewear from pre-pregnancy
Stretch Marks: Yup.
Symptoms: I've felt a little more pressure from her head being down
What I am Looking Forward to: Getting more and more ready for her grand appearance with everything from purchasing car seats to choosing a pediatrician.

Friday, November 30, 2012

32 Weeks


How Far Along: 32 Weeks 
Baby is the Size of A: Honeydew
Best Moment This Week: Going through all your new clothes and things and realizing that your arrival is around the corner!
Gender: Baby Girl
Movement: Lots of kicking and rolling and oftentimes on my bladder. 
Food Cravings: Chicken pot pie, alfredo pasta and Thanksgiving food!
What I Miss: Getting up from bed without pushing off with my arm.
Sleep: It seems that I'm sleeping for longer periods of time now, knock on wood.
Belly Button: Still hanging in there...mostly flat though.
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: Yup.
Stretch Marks: I think I just need to suck it up...they exist.
Symptoms: Just normal preggo problems...peeing often and heartburn.
What I am Looking Forward to: Our last holiday season without a little one to hold.

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

31 Weeks


How Far Along: 31 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Head of Lettuce again
Best Moment This Week: Having our second baby shower and getting all sorts of handmade things for you from Nini and lots of family and friends!
Gender: Littlest Princess
Movement: I think I spoke too soon, your movements are big and so much stronger than before.  They can be quite startling sometimes. You can definitely tell that you're getting bigger inside there and possibly running out of room without pushing up against the outside from time to time.
Food Cravings: Sweets...as always, but nothing specific.
What I Miss: Being able to put on pants, socks and boots without struggling.
Sleep: I have to make sure that I don't eat anything to cause heartburn too close to bedtime or I have a mid-night attack.  Other than that, great!
Belly Button: Still hanging in there.
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: I just organized my closet into things I can truly wear now and most are maternity.
Stretch Marks: I dunno, I think I'm in denial of a few smaller ones that have popped up but they're still all really low on my belly.
Symptoms: Not really...sometimes I feel a lot of pressure down lower but I think it's because of baby being head down now.
What I am Looking Forward to: Organizing your room with all your new things!

Sunday, November 18, 2012

30 Weeks


How Far Along: 30 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Head of Lettuce
Best Moment This Week: Finding a school for you for when I have to go back to work and trust other people with my sweet little angel AND getting surprise baby presents at the door.
Gender: Our little Abby Baby
Movement: You're moving a little less, well I guess I should say that you're not quite rocking and rolling throughout the day now.  It's more startling movements.
Food Cravings: Hmm...milk?  I've been drinking milk with a tablespoon of pumpkin spice creamer in it lately and have stopped a couple of times to pick up a milkshake on the way home so that's probably the closest thing I've had to a craving this week.
What I Miss: Not really much, I'm a pretty happy camper really.
Sleep: Good...I always have been able to sleep.
Belly Button: Still there in a shallow form.
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: Got a cute dress for my shower last week.  I'm not able to squeeze my belly into many non-maternity shirts anymore...they seem to be a little too short.
Stretch Marks: No more than before.
Symptoms: A little bit of back aches if I'm standing/walking a lot but not bad...and I'm still wearing heels at work so I can probably blame it on that.
What I am Looking Forward to: Your second baby shower this weekend!!

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

29 Weeks


How Far Along: 29 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Butternut squash
Best Moment This Week: Ordering your stroller!
Gender: Princess Abby
Movement: It's amazing how much you'll move sometimes.  You've started really moving later in the evenings around bedtime
Food Cravings: I finally gave into my sweet tea craving and made a gallon of decaf at home.
What I Miss: Being able to lean over to put on shoes without having a belly in the way...although it's not that bad, just different
Sleep: Sleeping like a champ and sleep-walking perfectly to the bathroom and back
Belly Button: Same still...there, just quickly disappearing
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: Mostly.  I've really started liking my maternity jeans and have been rocking the leggings and boots this week
Stretch Marks: Still hopeful
Symptoms: I'm trying to decide if I've felt Braxton-Hicks contractions this week because sometimes my belly feels much firmer than others
What I am Looking Forward to: Seeing all the friends that are coming to our first baby shower this weekend to shower you with presents and (I'm sure) plenty of cute clothes!

Saturday, November 3, 2012

28 Weeks




How Far Along: 28 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Cabbage
Best Moment This Week: Seeing your bigger movements and feeling how much stronger you're getting
Gender: Sweet Baby Girl
Movement: Lots!  I'm waiting to feel you make the big move into the head down position because at the last Dr. appointment you were transverse
Food Cravings: This week was mainly just about wanting "American" food after getting back from vacation
What I Miss: This week I've missed sweet tea
Sleep: Pretty good...just interrupted by bathroom breaks
Belly Button: Getting close to flat after a big meal but still a little innie
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: Pretty much gravitating towards maternity shirts only now but still able to wear certain styles of non-maternity
Stretch Marks: Holding steady
Symptoms: I've had a few spats with back pains if I've tried to do too much
What I am Looking Forward to: Buying baby stuff!  We need to start buying the essentials like a car seat so that the hospital will let us bring you home.

Sunday, October 28, 2012

27 Weeks


How Far Along: 27 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Head of cauliflower
Best Moment This Week: Relaxing by the pool in Puerto Rico
Gender: Our little angel princess
Movement: Lots of moving and they feel like they're larger movements now too
Food Cravings: Desserts! Luckily we were on vacation and able to indulge a little every day!
What I Miss: Being able to lay on my stomach...especially on a pool chair, I know, tough life :-)
Sleep: Good with lots of pillow around me
Belly Button: It's still there
Wedding Rings On or Off: On but a little tighter after a lot of walking
Maternity Clothes: Yup, my maternity clothes are the most comfortable
Stretch Marks: Below the swim suit line, thankfully!
Symptoms: A little back pain and hints of heartburn
What I am Looking Forward to: Baby showers right around the corner!  I can't believe we're getting close enough for baby showers, classes and maternity pictures to be NEXT month.  Crazy!

Monday, October 22, 2012

26 Weeks

 

How Far Along: 26 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Cucumber
Best Moment This Week: Seeing your sweet face on the ultrasound
Gender: Baby Girl
Movement: Lots of movement, especially in the mornings before I get out of bed.  It's so strange to me how you know when I wake up...I wonder if you're startled by my alarm in the mornings too
Food Cravings: No major must-haves but lately I've been on a chicken tender, turnip green and fried green tomato kick
What I Miss: Being able to eat a big meal without feeling so stuffed!
Sleep: Best when on my left side
Belly Button: Still slightly in for now
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: Mostly maternity clothes but can still wear non-maternity dresses and tops as long as my belly doesn't make them too short
Stretch Marks: No more so far but I've still got some growing to do
Symptoms: Getting a little tired again and have less room in my stomach for food these days
What I am Looking Forward to: Celebrating our 3 year anniversary and babymoon in Puerto Rico!!




Thursday, October 11, 2012

25 Weeks


How Far Along: 25 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Eggplant for the second week
Best Moment This Week: Adding the decorative touches in your nursery!
Gender: Princess Abby!
Movement: You are on the move all the time and I hope it continues because I love feeling you move inside my belly.
Food Cravings: Anything pumpkin, specifically pumpkin ice cream
What I Miss: Not being paranoid about waking up on my back in the middle of the night and generally sleeping comfortably any way
Sleep: Good...minus the paranoia.
Belly Button: Still slightly in for now
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: I'm pretty much only wearing maternity pants but still can wear longer, non-maternity shirts and regular loungewear( even if my belly hangs out a little)
Stretch Marks: Three on my lower belly...please stay that way
Symptoms: Lots of movement, a tighter belly
What I am Looking Forward to: Seeing you at the 3D ultrasound and having your Nini and Gaga there to see your pretty face too!

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

24 Weeks


How Far Along: 24 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Eggplant
Best Moment This Week: Registering at Target for all your baby things!
Gender: Mommy's princess...and daddy's angel!
Movement: You're definitely getting stronger and are generally pretty active
Food Cravings: Panera cinnamon crunch bagels with hazelnut cream cheese
What I Miss: Being able to fit into anything from my closet
Sleep: Pretty good...I seem to be sleeping more throughout the night and not having to wake up as often to pee
Belly Button: Still indented slightly
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: I found maternity work pants!  Target pulled through this week so now I can ditch the belly band
Stretch Marks: Still only the two little ones, fingers crossed.
Symptoms: I feel like I have a little less energy this week and might be a little moodier too
What I am Looking Forward to: Lots...classes at the hospital, maternity pictures, baby showers, another 3D ultrasound, and the babymoon!


Thursday, September 27, 2012

23 Weeks


How Far Along: 23 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Ear of Corn
Best Moment This Week: Seeing your ballet moves from outside my belly
Gender: Our little princess
Movement: You've become mostly active in the mornings right after I wake up
Food Cravings: I've craved random sugar cereals throughout but this weeks highlight craving was Captain Crunch.
What I Miss: Not having to think about what I'm eating and how everything goes straight to baby girl.
Sleep: Great!  We've been going to bed later too so that could have some to do with it.
Belly Button: Still indented but definitely shallow
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: I haven't added any...I need to find some black work pants but am not having much luck so I'm holding out and still rocking the open zipper with the belly band for now
Stretch Marks: No more, fingers crossed.
Symptoms: Baby alien moments that make my whole belly move
What I am Looking Forward to: Seeing you again soon and relaxing on the beach in Puerto Rico

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

22 Weeks


How Far Along: 22 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Papaya
Best Moment This Week: Having daddy feel you kick!
Gender: Sweet little girl!
Movement: Yes, all the time!
Food Cravings: Pumpkin spice lattes and Varsity chili dogs
(although I can't have one)
What I Miss: Pumpkin spice lattes and chili dogs :-)
Sleep: I only wake up a couple times throughout the night and always fall right back asleep
Belly Button: About the same as last week
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: I bought a pair of jeans that I actually like and that don't resemble Pajama Jeans
Stretch Marks: The ones that I had are a little darker now
Symptoms: Nothing new really...I just have to eat smaller meals to keep from getting uncomfortably full
What I am Looking Forward to: Scheduling maternity pictures and getting some more things for your nursery!


Thursday, September 13, 2012

21 Weeks


How Far Along: 21 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Spaghetti Squash
Best Moment This Week: Being able to feel rolls and kicks inside my belly
Gender: Little Princess Abby
Movement: Yes!  You're most active in the later afternoons/early evenings and mid-morning
Food Cravings: All I want is a Subway melt!  Or Inoko's fried rice with lots of yellow sauce!
What I Miss: Subway melts!
Sleep: I'm definitely sleeping for longer periods of time between potty breaks and switching sides
Belly Button: It's still there, just shallow
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: I wear mostly yoga pants and tank tops at home and am still wearing select, old work clothes for now.  I am getting closer to ditching the heels though...we'll see.
Stretch Marks: Still holding strong
Symptoms: Round ligament pain one afternoon this week.  I was given Dr.'s orders not to clean the house again for a while since that's what seemed to have brought it on ;-)
What I am Looking Forward to: Having two baby showers thrown by amazingly generous friends and family and everything else that seems like it'll be right around the corner.  Maternity pictures, showers, the babymoon...another 3D ultrasound with Nini and Gaga in tow...so much to look forward to!

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

20 Weeks


How Far Along: 20 Weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Banana
Best Moment This Week: Seeing you at the 20 week ultrasound
Gender: Sweet little girl!
Movement: Fluttering...and more of it.  Seems that you're most active in the mid-afternoons
Food Cravings: Egg salad sandwiches
What I Miss: Sleeping on my back and Coke!
Sleep: I wake up a good amount throughout the night to switch sides but am able to fall right back to sleep
Belly Button: In but definititely a little more shallow
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: I'm trying to make do with things I already have
Stretch Marks: No more to speak of...fingers crossed.  I want to wear a bikini in Puerto Rico next month!
Symptoms: Just tired in the afternoons and much earlier in the evenings than I used to be as a night owl
What I am Looking Forward to: Feeling like there's no mistaking my belly for a preggo belly in public.

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

19 Weeks


How Far Along: 19 weeks
Baby is the Size of A: Large mango
Best Moment This Week: Figuring out what people kept referring to as "flutters" felt like
Gender: Sweet little girl!
Movement: Yes!
Food Cravings: Chick-fil-A sandwich with extra pickles
What I Miss: Being able to eat dinner past 5:30.  I am so hungry by the time I get home after work!!
Sleep: Great...I could always sleep
Belly Button: In but definititely a little more shallow
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: Finally started wearing maternity jeans and still able to wear most my summer dresses
Stretch Marks: Alright...I think I have another small one below the panty line.
Symptoms: Still have a hard time taking the prenatal vitamins without puking.
What I am Looking Forward to: Our 20 week ultrasound to confirm that you are a perfectly healthy little GIRL!

Monday, August 20, 2012

18 Weeks

 
How Far Along: 18 weeks
(ugh..this is the best I could do for a picture using the self-timer, Jon has been out of town and working late quite a bit so I was on my own this week to make do)
Baby is the Size of A: Sweet Potato
Best Moment This Week: Painting and putting together your room, it's so cute!
Gender: Sweet little princess!
Movement: I think maybe some little flutters...still not really sure
Food Cravings: Hmm...I would say maybe sweet tea this week.  Not any major must-have cravings though
What I Miss: Being able to just grab anything for lunch.  It's so hard to find something to eat that's not fast food or deli sandwiches
Sleep: Great...although I wake up to switch sides often and still usually have to get up once to pee in the middle of the night
Belly Button: In
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: Most of my non-maternity clothes and the Belly Band but I did break out some maternity jeans and I may never go back...I love the stretch
Stretch Marks: Still just the little one
Symptoms: I'm hungry all the time!
What I am Looking Forward to: Getting to see you at the 20 week ultrasound next week!

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

17 Weeks


How Far Along:  17 weeks
(I'm a little behind on posting still but figure there will always be a week delay)
Baby is the Size of A: Onion
Best Moment This Week: Getting your bedding and lots of smocked dresses from Nini
Gender: Sweet little princess!
Movement: I think maybe some little flutters...still not really sure
Food Cravings: Milkshakes at home with lots of milk
What I Miss: Being able to stay up late without feeling like I'm half alive the next day
Sleep: Great...I could always sleep
Belly Button: In
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: Pretty much wearing all my clothes still with use of the Belly Band for pants and am finally wearing some more fitting shirts since my belly has rounded out and looks much more preggo vs. beer belly-ish
Stretch Marks: One small one really low...ugh
Symptoms: I have a lot more energy, still can't stomach certain foods
What I am Looking Forward to: Painting the nursery and getting everything settled into YOUR room!

Sunday, August 12, 2012

16 Weeks


How Far Along: 16 weeks
(I'm a little behind on posting this since I am actually 18 weeks, but better late than never)
Baby is the Size of A: An avocado
Best Moment This Week: Ordering your nursery bedding!
Gender: Sweet little princess!
Movement: I think I'm feeling something...not quite sure though
Food Cravings: Corn Chowder..I know, random
What I Miss: I'd say sweet tea this week and I might have splurged a little
Sleep: Pretty good and not having to get up to pee either, although I'm about to burst come morning
Belly Button: In
Wedding Rings On or Off: On
Maternity Clothes: Still pretty much the same...the Belly Band is my lifesaver for fitting into pants
Stretch Marks: One small one really low...ugh
Symptoms: Feeling pretty good actually, still have an intense gag reflex at night
What I am Looking Forward to: Getting your crib and bedding!  We ordered it all this week and it should all arrive sometime soon!